This girl- ME, this mom of 5 who’s actually been pregnant 14 times- has been wearing a two piece to the beach. Despite my many stretch marks which are very visible, despite my flabby tummy with a c-section “shelf, despite my farmers tan, my jiggly thighs and bum, and my love handles. And most of all, despite my MAJOR insecurities and body image issues,
I’ve never found a swimsuit that I loved and made me feel amazing. But I actually feel more comfortable in this simple two piece (who knows why, all things considered) and it’s been good for my brain because I have been able to overcome a lot just to walk from my chair out into the water.
It started in Hawaii. I think my comfort level is different when I’m in a place where no one knows me (and in all honesty, I don’t know if I’m to the point yet where I could wear it at home). But I’m getting in the water, I’m swimming with my husband and children, I’m not caring if others are staring at me or picking me apart. I’m sick and tired of waiting for my body to change and anticipating that perfect size or whatever. That gets so old.
God gave me this body, it’s serving it’s purpose, and I’m not supposed to look like anybody but ME!
So… here’s a high five to myself and all the other mama’s out there who promote “mom confidence! Drop a comment if you’re one of them so we can spread more positivity and encouragement!!